One of the most difficult things for me to do in defriend someone. At certain times in our lives we realize that it is time to move on from a friendship. In my opinion that is more difficult than breaking up with someone. Facebook makes it so easy. With the click of a button someone … Continue reading What do I do with you my friend
After many many years of being a mother and a wife, I decided I needed to do something for myself. It’s never anything major you know getting a pedicure, taking a walk, going to the gym. Just something so I can have time to myself to think and remember who I am. Needless to say … Continue reading Selfishness is running rampant
How did we get here? That's the question you asked. My reply "you started this". That is an easy answer because it hides the real reason we are here. The truth is curiosity. My curiosity, your curiosity, our curiosity is why we are here. I was curious to know the feel of your touch, the … Continue reading Curious Me
I was looking to you for my peace and my solace. Not understanding exactly why. You had become my drug, my addiction without me even recognizing it. That feeling of freedom and relief that all my problems and issues disappeared. You became a temporary fix for a problem that needs and permanent solution. Temporarily you … Continue reading I have really been tripping lately
So the other day I saw some pictures of plus size models. To no surprise many men were calling these ladies fat and saying how they needed to lose weight and many other derogatory things. Men, you act like women do not want and desire a man with six pack abs and fit. Every woman … Continue reading Men, We Need to Talk
I gave you all of me. No false pretenses me 100% of me. You couldn't take me as I was so bit by bit you chipped here then there until you chipped me totally away. The sad part is I allowed you to chip at me and tear me into bits. Why because of love. … Continue reading In my feelings tonight
Today I was listening to the radio and they were having a discussion about the Bachelorette. The discussion centered around her decision to choose a non-black suitor. The argument was it was giving a bad name to the brothers and making it seems as if a brother was not good enough for her. Now, here's … Continue reading Why are you so upset?
I try to do what is right because it is what is right. I mean yes I fall short sometimes but as a rule of thumb I try to do what is right. I find that I am constantly taken advantage of by people who know me best because they know that I am going … Continue reading Sometimes throwing in the towel is not an option
I am considered a plus size woman and I love it. Yet, I am often trying to lose weight. Many reasons spark my weight loss journey and intentions. The most important being my health. I have decided that yes I want to and need to lose weight (according to my doctor) but I still want … Continue reading Majority doesn’t always rule
Jake Brigance in his closing argument said"...the eyes of the law are human eyes---yours and mine--and until we can see each other as equals, justice is never going to be evenhanded. It will remain nothing more than a reflection of our own prejudices, so until that day we have a duty under God to seek … Continue reading Will love ever be enough?